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Find out what’s motivating your child’s behavior and what to do about it.

Find out

what’s motivating

your child’s behavior

and what to do about it.

A How to Parenting Manual sharing how to stop an argument, reduce misdirected attention, make a sincere apology, stop disrespect in 3 seconds—really. Plus 3 ways to correct behavior w/o timeout; one for ages 2-3, one for ages 5-9, one for ages 10-18. Remain connected while correcting behavior, without sacrificing the authority you’ve been looking for.

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Should I correct developmentally motivated behavior or not, and if so how? This solutions eBook shares little known insights about development for ages 3-13 so you can empower and teach your child, instead of punishing.

$15.95

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Increase listening, respect, and cooperation by reframing the way you see misbehavior. Learn where to place your focus so you can remain calm and teach instead of yell and punish. Ages 3-13

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It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it that matters, especially with kids. This solutions eBook explains the subtle, yet powerful difference between correcting and teaching. Ages 3-13

$12.95

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Children react to warnings instead of listening to them. When you adjust the way you deliver a warning, they work the way you hoped they would. You’ll also receive sample conversations to support you.
Ages 3-13

$12.95

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Chores inspire cooperation, respect and teach responsibility, all things you want your kids to learn as they grow. This solutions eBook matches chores to the subtle aspects of each developmental phase. For children ages 3-13.

$7.95

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Kids ages 2-5 are influenced by rapid development.

Learn how to work with, not against that development.

This audio shares little known insights into the rapid, often intense development that occurs between the ages of 2-5, and offers ways to work with these changes instead of against them.

$15.95

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This video shares little known insights into the rapid, often intense development that occurs between the ages of 2-5, and offers ways to work with these changes instead of against them.

$17.95

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This combo lets you listen in the car or watch at home as it shares little known insights into the rapid, often intense development that occurs between the ages of 2-5, and offers ways to work with these changes instead of against them.

$20.95

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Find out how to stop arguing, create clarity, and motivate listening and cooperation.

$37.00

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Being Heard Instead of Arguing contains 8 to the point mp3’s, plus eBook. You’ll learn the myths that cause arguing to re-ignite, techniques to stop arguing that grow with your child, transformative skills shifting arguing into cooperation, plus so much more.

$37.00

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Clarity Replaces Yelling consists of 7 concise mp3’s plus eBook. You’ll learn which types of questions replace yelling, words that inspire responsibility and action, all while being calm and empathetic, instead of yelling.

$37.00 

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Motivating Listening & Cooperation contains 11 content-packed mp3’s plus eBook sharing differences between learning consequences and punishment, steps and sample conversations to support learning consequences, an empathetic connected way to express firm boundaries that motivate listening and cooperation.

$97.00 

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The Series – The Set of 3

Coaching illuminates blocks and provides unique solutions to change behavior.

$50.00

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Are you facing the same challenging behavior day in and day out? Do you have just one question you’d love the answer to? A 30-minute coaching session will provide you with a fresh perspective plus mindful, clear words and actions to address whatever you’re facing.

$95.00 per hour

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Are you reacting and saying things you never thought you’d say? Are you looking for new ways to set mindful, yet firm age-appropriate limits? A 60-minute coaching session will provide you with clear ways to respond and teach your child how to regulate their emotions so (s)he can learn about themselves and their behavior.

 

$285.00

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Together we’ll talk through the challenges and triggers in your family dynamic. We’ll develop a specific plan that will reframe your triggers and shift both yours and your child’s emotional reactions. Each week you receive mindful and clear ways to remain empathetic and connected to your child as you correct behavior so you can coach them toward emotional regulation which creates a better understanding of themselves and the world around them. 

Real life challenges you to put your skills into action.

Our book has 108 real life situations and solutions to help.

108 daily-life situations showing you how to transform yelling, arguing, and punishing into connected, yet firm learning moments so you can teach your child about their behavior.

$17.95

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The ePub is like thumbing through all 228 pages, only different. Tap an entry on the table of contents and the ePub instantly jumps to that chapter so you can create a learning moment.

$10.95

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The PDF download allows you to read all 228 pages on your computer w/o any added devices. Just download and begin transforming corrections into learning moments.

$9.95

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The audio version allows you to listen where and when you like, and then instantly begin using the concept to transform yelling, arguing, and punishing into connected, yet firm learning moments.

$23.95

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