Proactive Parenting change responding into learning moments. Ways to change yelling & punishment into effective ways to correct behavior, teach self-discipline.

Calling all…

frustrated, emotionally worn out mamas who want to transform their
parental superpowers into
mindful, calm, guidance without compromising their line in the sand.

You’re ready to stop yelling and punishing—
but not sure what replaces it—that works?

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30 Breakthrough Choices for Kids
that Ends Arguing about your Rules

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Hi, I’m Sharon.

I’m guessing someone mentioned
my name, or you saw me online.
However you found me, I’m glad you’re here.
This site blends ways to consciously use mindful methods to guide your child towards the skills needed to become resilient without compromising your line in the sand. 

You might have seen me…

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Your Parenting Began

Your parenting began with gentle bonding—
and your heart hasn’t been the same since.

Now, despite that loving bond, you’ve started reacting more often than you thought.

You feel challenged, frustrated, triggered, and as a result, you’re emotionally exhausted.

You’re afraid there’s no solution to stop arguing, resistance, or attitude.

You’re afraid this is just how it goes when you raise kids; true and not true.

These little-known solutions shift how you teach the skills needed to change behavior,
so you teach without damaging your child’s spirit, or losing your temper.

You want to live in a world where

  • Where children are taught skills to manage life’s learning moments, not rage against them.
  • Parent’s empower kids with knowledge and skills instead of preventing or controlling experiences.
  • Where children have been taught about their feelings so they can rebound from stress and emotional chaos and return to resilience and well-being once again.
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Mama—it’s easy to fall into a rut of nonaction.

Parenting challenges us to be our best 24/7—that’s a lot of pressure.
Without an actionable plan, it’s easy to fall into non-action and repeat the same
methods again and again, hoping for a different result.

“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
Albert Einstein

Stop Reacting and Start Responding

108 Ways to Transform Behavior into
Learning Moments

Parenting is different than you thought; sometimes, you need a differnt perspective to figure out what works and why. Stop reacting is more than just a book–it’s a resourse. A reference. Support system. Empowerment.

It’s like having coffee with a friend whose been where you are, and has the advice your looking for. Most importantly, this book answers the questions you have yet to ask.

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What you can expect from us

  • A blend of no-yelling, mindful, authoritative, straightforward methods to deal with and correct behavior so your child feels seen and heard, all without compromising the line in the sand.
  • The little known developmental highlights that masquerade as misbehavior, and what to do.
  • How to apply the same methods to strong willed or tender-hearted kids.
  •  How to inspire critical thinking long before the brain creates it.
  • Playbooks that share no-yelling methods to end arguing, attitude, upleveled timeout t0 works for todays families, ways to create genuine apologies, plus six ways to teach calm breathing to kids, and more.
  • Two powerful superpowers parents don’t know they have, and how to use them.
  • How to arrive at same-page-parenting.

Experience quick successes with our Free Download.

30 Breakthrough Choices for Kids
that Ends Arguing about your Rules

Sharon Silver…

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They named me the Parent Whisperer because I have the unique ability to see things through a child’s eyes, allowing me to understand and express what they are too young to articulate.

I bring 30+ years of parenting and early childhood knowledge and wisdom, plus a methodology that’s been shared with parents in 93 countries to create calm, no-yelling, mindful authoritative and empathetic solutions that do not compromise your line in the sand.

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Actionable Solutions

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Surprising Results

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Sonja Limon, Testimonial I can't recommend Sharon and Proactive Parenting enough No one else is talking about this stuff.
Dr. Lynne Kenny Testimonial, In an era where we feel confused about "how to parent our children,Parent Educator, Sharon Silver provides sensible, modern advice real parents can really use.
Amy Vance Testimonial, I've been led to thousands of websites, read hundreds of blogs and books...but the majority was dead end information. You're different.…it was the way you worded things. You were like a fresh, crisp, cool drink of water during an often-exhausting marathon of seeking advice.
Lani Wharton Testimonial, It's really refreshing to get helpful tips that start with the change within us first. I find your insight really helpful and exactly what 1 am looking for.
Erin from Oregon Testimonial, I've seen sites like this before, they look like they offer great stuff, but give fluff or BS. I'm amazed at the immediate results with my child and myself. I'm in control. I don't get emotional or upset. I now use situations as teachable moments and my child responds.
Michele Borba Testimonial, A glorious collection of parenting tips that moms can instantly use to help them raise good and caring kids.
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that Ends Arguing about your Rules

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