We all have a push-pull relationship with feelings.

First we push our kids to talk about feelings, then when they express them,
usually loudly, we emotionally pull back, silently wishing it would stop.

Sharon Smiling


Let’s restore your calm and dedication to your parenting vision
as you deal with your child’s “BIG Feelings” and the resulting chaos.

Let’s get you the Emotional Decoder:
The Fastest Way to Understand and Calm the Chaos of a child’s Big Feelings.

The Emotional Decoder:
The Fastest Way to Understand and Calm the Chaos of a child’s Big Feelings.
for Only $15.00
(It’s way cheaper than a pair of kids shoes and lasts way longer.)

What can be done?

You know your words can either soothe a meltdown or cause it to flare up again.

You’re tired of being told how to fix that; you’d rather have someone share what responding sounds like, so it becomes intuitive and so you can understnd what to do when you receive the “normal” response from your child – a refusal to cooperate!

This is the role of the Emotional Decoder.

Inside you’ll find 10 questions you’ll recognize as the questions you normally ask your child when correcting behavior. Then you’ll read how the question was reframed to soothe and respond to the “BIG Feelings” while maintaining your connection and rules as you decode what’s going on.

The Emotional Decoder breaks down any barriers between you and your child so your child actually hears you, connects to their feelings, and you’re both able to move forward to resolve the issue.

Why should you trust me?

As a mom myself, I know parenting can be tough. It’s even tougher when you’re not sure what is triggering you to react rather than respond. My own childhood was “eventful” and the way I found myself reacting is the exact reason why I became a parent educator – to help parents learn how to raise children in the best way possible.

I’ve been working with parents for over 30 years, and have earned 4 parenting certifications from some of the most well-respected institutes in the country such as the Cline/Fay Institute, The Gesell Institute of Child development, and the work of Rudolf Dreikurs through INCAF and Positive Parenting.

I’ve been featured on Oprah, CNN, Sacramento and Company, Am Northwest, and in Parenting and Parents Magazine, Yahoo Parenting, and other regional and national parenting magazines. I’ve also spoken at Microsoft, Intel, PayPal, and eBay’s Parenting Networks.

I am the proud author of Stop Reacting and Start Responding; 108 Ways to Transform Behavior into Learning Moments. I have also been a contributor to Parents Ask and Experts Answer, PopSugar Parenting, and I’ll be appearing soon inside the upcoming Momma’s Goals.

You may have seen me on.

Corporation Sharon has taught to respond not react

Our parents get results. Will you be next?

I love helping parents build better relationship with their children

I know The Emotional Decoder will shift your reaction to actionable responsive strategies that actually work.
I’m so glad you’re going to join us!

The Emotional Decoder:
The Fastest Way to Understand and Calm the Chaos of a child’s Big Feelings.
for Only $15.00
(It’s way cheaper than a pair of kids shoes and lasts way longer.)

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We all have a push-pull relationship with feelings.

First we push our kids to talk about feelings,
then when they express them,
usually loudly, we emotionally pull back,
silently wishing it would stop.

Sharon Smiling


Let’s restore your calm and dedication
to your parenting vision
as you deal with your child’s
“BIG Feelings” and the resulting chaos.

Let’s get you the Emotional Decoder:
The Fastest Way to Understand
and Calm the Chaos of a child’s Big Feelings.

The Emotional Decoder:
The Fastest Way to Understand
and Calm the Chaos
of a child’s Big Feelings.
for Only $15.00
(It’s way cheaper than a pair of kids shoes and lasts way longer.)

What can be done?

You know your words can either soothe a meltdown or cause it to flare up again.

You’re tired of being told how to fix that; you’d rather have someone share what responding sounds like, so it becomes intuitive and so you can understnd what to do when you receive the “normal” response from your child – a refusal to cooperate!

This is the role of
the Emotional Decoder.

Inside you’ll find 10 questions you’ll recognize as the questions you normally ask your child when correcting behavior. Then you’ll read how the question was reframed to soothe and respond to the “BIG Feelings” while maintaining your connection and rules as you decode what’s going on.

The Emotional Decoder breaks down any barriers between you and your child so your child actually hears you, connects to their feelings, and you’re both able to move forward to resolve the issue.

Why should you trust me?

As a mom myself, I know parenting can be tough. It’s even tougher when you’re not sure what is triggering you to react rather than respond. My own childhood was “eventful” and the way I found myself reacting is the exact reason why I became a parent educator – to help parents learn how to raise children in the best way possible.

I’ve been working with parents for over 30 years, and have earned 4 parenting certifications from some of the most well-respected institutes in the country such as the Cline/Fay Institute, The Gesell Institute of Child development, and the work of Rudolf Dreikurs through INCAF and Positive Parenting.

I’ve been featured on Oprah, CNN, Sacramento and Company, Am Northwest, and in Parenting and Parents Magazine, Yahoo Parenting, and other regional and national parenting magazines. I’ve also spoken at Microsoft, Intel, PayPal, and eBay’s Parenting Networks.

I am the proud author of Stop Reacting and Start Responding; 108 Ways to Transform Behavior into Learning Moments. I have also been a contributor to Parents Ask and Experts Answer, PopSugar Parenting, and I’ll be appearing soon inside the upcoming Momma’s Goals.

You may have seen me on.

Corporation Sharon has taught to respond not react

Our clients saw results.
Will you be next?

I love helping parents
build better relationship
with their children

I know The Emotional Decoder
will shift your reaction to actionable
responsive strategies that actually work.
I’m so glad you’re going to join us!

The Emotional Decoder:
The Fastest Way to Understand
and Calm the Chaos
of a child’s Big Feelings.
for Only $15.00
(It’s way cheaper than a pair of kids shoes and lasts way longer.)

All Rights Reserved – Proactive Parenting – 2021        Privacy Policy | Web Site Terms and Conditions of Use

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