You know who you are.

You’re capable, wise, loving, and aware.

AND yet,

You’re facing a fork in the road.

You wonder, how, if things are this hard now,
will you ever be able to teach as you correct without
damaging your relationship with your child?”

You wonder, am I destined
to yell, punish and react instead of respond?

We all face this moment, at one time or another.

Read Solutions on our Blog

Your goal is to raise strong, empathetic,
independent, wise, and happy children.

But the big emotions, mistakes,
and lack of cooperation
have become triggers.

You have the skills needed when you’re calm,

but once triggered,

you end up saying and doing things you never thought you would!?

The trouble is, yelling and punishing isn’t working;
       this is not how you planned on raising your child.

You see action when you yell, 
       and you see the damage that yelling produces 
       on your child’s sweet face. 

You’ve tried to negotiate, 
       but that sends your child the message
       (s)he has as much authority as you do.

Big emotions happen so quickly
      that things deteriorate into yelling
      before you can stop what’s happening.

You find yourself yelling,
       and decide you’ll worry about
       “the relationship” when the kids get older?!

You’re frustrated, out of solutions, and still, need behavior to change.

Learn how, NOW!

Which path will you choose?
Repeating the same methods
and getting the same results,
or Transform Behavior into Learning Moments?

Parenting is not instant pudding.
No 1 solution changes everything. 

Shifting your perspective, seeing the bigger picture, and accessing your inner authentic authority so behavior can be transformed into a learning moment,
is the key to parenting.

To see what I’m talking about download our gift:
Teaching Kids How Mad Affects You and How to Get Calm. 

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7 Ways to Help Kids Control Themselves An eBook with 7 Quick adjustments you can make to help your child gain more self-control.

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from Problems to Solutions

Here are three ways to shift from yelling and being punitive,

to correcting behavior using mindful and responsive approaches that truly create change.

Here are three ways to shift

from yelling and being punitive,

to correcting behavior using

mindful and responsive approaches

that truly create change.

Stop Reacting and Start Responding, my book,
shares 108 ways to Transform Behavior into Learning Moments. 

Parents in 92 countries around the world have benefited from this approach.

Available in Soft Cover, eBook or Audio Book.

Purchase topic specific products showing you how to shift from yelling and reacting to mindfully teaching kids about themselves and their behavior.

Dr. Shefali and Sharon Silver

Sharon and Dr. Shefali talking parenting

Work with me privately to gain specific words and actions that will transform behavior for your unique child and family.
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