Parenting has changed.

You’re no longer comfortable with yelling,

and you see that it doesn’t work.


you’re not sure what to replace it with?

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Sharon Silver


Remaining connected as you correct behavior.

Delivering clarity so you’re truly heard.

Productive ways to increase cooperation.

Authentic teaching instead of punishing.


You can feel confident, calm and connected

to your child as you correct behavior.

Proactive Parenting’s goal is to shift

your parenting perspective

so you can achieve this.

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Our Mission

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We are devoted to embracing empowering concepts

that let parents connect as they correct behavior,

fill emotional needs without sacrificing

the rules and boundaries needed

so a child can find their own muscles of self-regulation

and grow into an independent, responsible adult.

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What We Offer

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Your Child’s Misbehavior Has Another Purpose

If you have a 2-5 year-old then you’ve experienced tantrums, wild or sassy behavior, right? You think it’s misbehavior. It looks and feels like misbehavior. But the truth is something else is motivating it. Learn what that is.


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Responding Connects as You Correct Behavior

Some say, “I’d love alternatives to yelling, arguing, and punishing, but that’s all he responds to.” There are alternatives that connect, build self-esteem, and correct behavior at the same time. And the results are everything you want your parenting to be. Begin now


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108 Practical Solutions for Everyday Life

No parent has time to read 300-pages of child development and parenting theory to find answers. I’ve reduced the solutions down to 2 pages per topic with an easy way to reference answers in 1 minute or less so you can move on.
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You Are Not Alone: Coaching

Sometimes all you need is to talk things out, get some ideas to inspire you so you’re refreshed and can get back to it. That’s what coaching is all about. Get the tips and solutions you’re looking for to live the family life you’ve dreamed of.
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What Others Say

“This has triggered a wonderful inner transformation for me on many levels. Big light-bulb for me is that we are here to TEACH, not reprimand with time-outs they don’t understand. I see every moment as a teaching opportunity because of you!” Renee Taylor

I thoroughly enjoyed The Authentic Parent Series. I thought if I only gain one or two things from the course, it will be worth it. It was so much longer and extensive than I thought. It definitely exceeded my expectations. Vera Womek

“I’ve seen sites like this before… they look like they offer great stuff, but give fluff or BS. I’m amazed at the immediate results with my child and myself. I’m in control… I don’t get emotional or upset. I now use situations as teachable moments, and my child totally responds.” Erin from Oregon

“It’s really refreshing to get helpful tips that start with the change within us first. I find your insight really helpful and exactly what I am looking for.” Lani Wharton

Imagine truly being heard instead of arguing.

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